Hi Jacqui, and Shelly of course, Many times when Marianne and I are out like this, we don’t plan too much and that way, if you are open-minded, things like this happen. And I agree, these occasions are a gift, but you need to let it happen. Many people can’t see the possibility in things like this happening and therefore they don’t search and try to find them, and that’s a bit sad I think. I guess we three have good experiences of lunches (bad once, let’s scarp them) and I say “Why not make good lunch experiences a habit”, I think Shelly and I will do that in Charlottesville at the VABook festival in March. I also remember that lunch we had in Guernsey Shelly and it was a great lunch, and the best thing about it was that we didn’t need to know why; it’s the feeling that counts. - Li